Have a plan

A plan indicates you've had a bit of a think about your life and aren't just waiting for something to turn up. Or, again like most people, not even thinking about it but going through life perpetually surprised by what happens. Work out what it is you want to do, plan it, work out the steps to take to achieve your goal, and get on with it. If you don't plan, it will remain a dream.

So what happens if you don't have a plan? Well, you reinforce, to yourself, your sense of being 'not in control'. Once you have a plan everything else falls into place. Once you have a plan, the logical steps to achieve that plan also become available, accessible. A plan isn't a dream - it's something you intend doing rather than something you want to do. And having a plan means you've thought through how you're going to do it.

The plan is always up for review, for improvement, or changing as and when you need to. The plan shouldn't be rigid. Circumstances change, you change, your plan changes. The details of the plan don't matter. Having one does.

Having a plan gives you a fall-back position. When life gets hectic, it is easy to forget what we are here for. Having a plan means that when the dust settles you can remember, 'Now what I was doing? Oh yes, I remember, my plan was to...' And off you go again, back on course.

If you don't plan your plan, it will remain a dream